How to Actually Create What You Want in Your Relationship …
So You Can Go From Feeling Like Disconnected Roommates to Romantic, Connected Partners Again
… Even if You Feel Like You're On Totally Different Pages Right Now
is this you?
If you're like so many couples I've talked to (and me in the past), you wish you could just feel connected in your relationship again.
The problem though?
the problem
You have no idea how to create that connection.
Everything else in your life takes priority over your relationship (and you’re too busy to create an actual relationship vision and take the action steps toward making it a reality).
What you really want (if you know what that is) is silent inside your own head and you're not sure how to get it out and into your life.
So, let’s talk about how to change that …
Any of these sound familiar?
Intimacy and communication just aren't there. I'm tapped out and exhausted. Connection is missing and sex feels like one more thing I have to do. The biggest thing I want is connection but time is a struggle.
My partner and I are NEVER on the same page and I don’t think we even know what we actually want as a couple.
I want more touching but not sexual touching (and not grabbing my boobs from behind while I’m washing the dishes). I want connectedness.
It's hard to enjoy myself when I'm either spinning in my head over all the things I have to do or beating myself up in my head and not being present.
Secretly, I want to be bossy, demanding and commanding. But I do what I think I "should" do. What if I say what I really want and get rejected? Or what if it creates conflict?
Maybe you think:
You should just stay silent because you’re scared of having the same damn fight again if you say anything.
If you just keep going (a.k.a. doing nothing), things will magically change on their own (but they don’t …).
You’re too busy to make a change, so it’s easier to just do the same-old, same-old.
You’ve tried some things to make it better (like sex toys, random date nights, a vision board, trying to say something but the words got stuck in your throat, conversations that just ended in arguments) but they haven’t worked … so you figure you may as well get used to things the way they are.
You’re stuck and it feels like there’s no way out.
but the truth is ...
It’s not your fault that you’re feeling this way or that things haven’t worked yet.
TRUTH #1
Most “solutions” are just random tactics that don’t solve anything in a way that creates sustainable change (because random tactics are like putting a Band-Aid over the problem instead of actually dealing with what’s underneath) ... and that leads to the next two points.
TRUTH #2
What does work is discovering who you uniquely are as individuals and as a couple, intentionally creating intimacy, and communicating in a healthy way … but we’ve never been taught to honor our uniqueness or how to have open, honest conversations about our relationship.
TRUTH #3
What also works is discovering and shifting all the things that get in the way of discovering and expressing who you are, creating intimacy, and effectively communicating ... things like societal conditioning and past experiences ... and doing it in a way that actually creates change.
Because there’s an interconnected system involved, not just isolated issues.
“I came away with the impression that sexual healing had little to do with tricks or techniques, and almost everything to do with the mind, with sensing an internal flicker of I want that - and feeling empowered to act accordingly.”
~ Katherine Rowland
SO, HERE'S A KEY FACTOR ...
Unlike all that other stuff out there ...
What I do works because it’s all about the connections among things (see what I did there??), the foundations that make a difference and shifting what gets in the way of those foundations.
So that you can have the relationship and connection you want.
Yes, it is possible.
And you can get started now.
imagine ...
Imagine what it would be like to ...
Have a simple system to create a clear vision for your relationship and sex life and actually create it (so you can stop doing the same-old, same-old and instead express what you uniquely want) …
Create a deeper connection in your relationship (so you can finally feel like romantic partners, not disconnected roommates) …
Increase intimacy in all ways, including in the bedroom, so you can look forward to sex (and not go through the motions like you’re obligated … which just makes you feel shittier) …
Have fun and meaningful conversations about your relationship (and about more than just who’s picking up milk on the way home) …
And do it all in a way that works for your busy life so you can keep it going …
AND MORE!
I get it ...
I was there before, too.
I know personally what it’s like to want a connected relationship but have no idea how to change the disconnection.
I know what it feels like to be caught in the shit-loop, feeling like it’ll never end.
But my partner and I intentionally changed it all and now have a connected relationship.
Hi! I'm Leanne Chesser, intimacy coach and creator of Connection for Couples, the 5C System and the DREAM Framework.
I know the power of healthy communication, emotional connection and authenticity as well as the foundational mindset work underneath it all.
And I'm on a mission to help couples create intimate connection and communication in their relationship (through practical and foundational solutions that actually work) so they can go from feeling like disconnected roommates to romantic partners, too.
Why am I so passionate about this?
Because all of this took me years to develop and shift, plus a few coaching certifications (life, mindset, emotional intelligence, sex and now relationship) in addition to my previous psychology and education degrees!
I created the 5C System and DREAM Framework that I now support you with so you can create intimacy, satisfaction in the bedroom, healthy communication and shift the underlying stuff much more quickly than I did (minus the certs!).
And That's Exactly Why I Created the Relationship Roadmap ...
To Help You Start To Do Just That!
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introducing
The Relationship Roadmap for Couples!
A toolkit that gives you an entire roadmap for creating and implementing a vision for your relationship and sex life … so you can intentionally create the connection and intimacy you want and go from feeling like disconnected roommates to romantic partners again … instead of hoping that things will just magically change … even if you feel like you and your partner are totally on different pages right now.
A PROCESS FOR EXPLORING & CLARIFYING YOUR DESIRES
A SIMPLE SYSTEM THAT MAKES CREATING YOUR VISION EASIER
ADDITIONAL PDFs, TEMPLATES & OUTLINES
AND BONUS RESOURCES TO SUPPORT YOU, TOO
→ WITH THIS TOOL, YOU'LL LEARN HOW TO ...
create Your Vision...
Use a simple and powerful process to create and implement your unique relationship vision (so you don’t just create a random vision board or new year’s resolution that falls away in three weeks).
Clarify Your Desires...
Discover the sexual desires, types of touch and sensations you really want to explore and what you’re a “hell no” to (so you can stop forcing yourself to go through the motions and the same-old, same-old that makes you want to avoid sex at all costs).
Create Connection...
Create a deeper connection and revitalize your relationship to go from feeling like roommates to romantic partners again.
Have Conversations...
Start and have meaningful conversations about your relationship (and stop just having the logistical roommate convos about who's picking up milk on the way home).
And communicate your desires without the awkwardness that has kept you silent up until now.
ALL IN A SIMPLE TOOL THAT MAKES CREATING A VISION FUN, EASY & EFFECTIVE!
Finally, you'll know how to create that connection you really want in your relationship and start feeling like romantic partners again.
and more...
So, what's actually inside the Relationship Roadmap?
01
THE RELATIONSHIP ROADMAP
In this unique format (Trello board), you’ll find a simple process to create connection in your relationship that’s easy to use and implement so that you keep doing it. I include a video that shows you exactly how to use the tool so that it’s clear (even if you have no idea what a Trello board is right now).
02
VISION CREATION QUESTIONS
You’ll receive a PDF of powerful questions as well as an audio recording of the visioning exercise designed to help you get crystal clear on your unique vision for your relationship and sex life, begin to step into being who you get to be in order to create it and start to release what has been holding you back.
03
WHAT MAKES A CLEAR VISION training
This training and checklist based on my DREAM framework, outlines the five key elements of a clear relationship vision so you can create a unique and effective picture of what you authentically want as a couple and actually put it into action.
04
VISION STATEMENT GUIDE & WORKBOOK
You get a powerful process for creating a simple statement based on your vision that helps you finally implement it into your life and empowers your visualization process because it's unique to you and not a bunch of random affirmations.
05
TYPES OF TOUCH & SENSATION ACTIVITIES
These activities specify the types of touch that turn you on or off, the types of sensation that you find pleasurable and where on your body you prefer to be touched. You’ll get a PDF that outlines the activities in detail.
06
discover your desires deep dive
This comprehensive list of desires will allow you to discover exactly what turns you on and off, what you might want to explore further and what is an absolute no for you, all in an easy to categorize format inside the Trello board.
07
DESIRES Debrief Template
As you put the desires, touch and sensation activities into practice, it’s important to check in about how they went so you know what you want to do more of. So, you’ll get a debrief template to have a conversation as a couple to review what worked and what didn’t.
08
goal & action step guide
Without a way to put your vision into practice, it can just fall by the wayside (kinda like those new year’s resolutions). This guide will allow you to create goals and action steps based on your vision so that you can actually see it come to life in your relationship.
09
THE CONNECTION FOR COUPLES community
I’ve created a private group for support and accountability to help you take action and to give you a place to ask questions and receive answers from me as well as a chance to connect with other couples in the community.
10
EMAILS FOR SUPPORT & ACCOUNTABILITY
You’ll get a short series of accountability and support emails to help you put things into practice so that you’re not left on your own. You can reply to these emails any time to ask questions that come up for you as well.
11
bonus: 60-minute monthly meeting outline
The monthly couple’s connection meeting is a key piece in my system and a key element of a healthy relationship. You’ll get an example outline of how to hold these meetings and topics that you can include or modify.
12
BONUS: 10 FUN WAYS TO START A CONVERSASTION
This list of creative ways to start and have a conversation about sex will help you move through the fear that holds you back from saying what you really want sexually. It might even spark some sexy fun times with your partner.
13
BONUS: hOW TO BE MORE PRESENT
These techniques will teach you how to increase your presence in the moment so you can begin to experience pleasure more fully and also improve your communication.
14
BONUS: STRATEGIES FOR VISUALIZATION
You’ll get a list of fun ideas for visualizing what you’ve created to increase your motivation and the effectiveness of your vision and goals.
15
BONUS: CONSENT GUIDE & framework
This guide will help you understand how to have a basic conversation about doing the activities with your partner and understand consent and the consent process. You'll diagram your own consent spectrum based on the model so you can apply it to your own life.
16
BONUS: pre & post assessments
I created these assessments to accomplish two things. First, they allow you to see your growth from using the toolkit. Second, they allow me to support you and improve the tool and resources based on what has worked, which increases the success that you and your partner have.
Plus you'll have access to transcripts for videos and slide PDFs from presentations.
“Working together intentionally on a relationship vision turns your energy away from past and present disappointments toward a more hopeful future, the future you want to create.”
~ Harville Hendrix
ready?
Imagine what would happen if ...
Imagine having a clear relationship vision created with a simple system to actually make it a reality …
It's time to create the connection you really want.
Ready?
BUT YOU WILL NEED TO HURRY
This is an introductory offer and the price won't last forever ...
So get in now!
Besides, the sooner you get in, the sooner you can dive into creating the connected relationship you really want.
THE RELATIONSHIP ROADMAP PROMISE
Make your payment today, take a full seven days to explore the materials, activities and resources, and if you’re not 100% satisfied with your purchase, let me know and I’ll offer you a full refund.
The Relationship Roadmap
A SIMPLE TOOL FOR CREATING VISIONS THAT BOOST CONNECTION
Discover Your Desires Deep Dive . . . . . (Value $47)
Types of Touch & Sensation Activities . . . . . (Value $27)
Sensual Touch Activities . . . . . (Value $37)
Desires Debrief Template . . . . . . (Value $27)
The DREAM Framework & Checklist . . . . . (Value $34)
The Vision Questions & Audio . . . . . (Value $44)
Vision Statement Guide & Worksheet . . . . . . (Value $34)
Goal & Action Step Guides . . . . . . (Value $34)
The Connection Community . . . . . (Value $47)
Email Support . . . . . (Value $27)
BONUS: Monthly Meeting Outline . . . . . (Value $47)
BONUS: Strategies for Visualizing . . . . . (Value $7)
BONUS: How to Be More Present During Sex . . . . . (Value $17)
BONUS: 10 Fun Ways to Start a Conversation . . . . . (Value $17)
BONUS: Consent Guide . . . . . (Value $47)
BONUS: Pre & Post Assessments . . . . . (Value $17)
TOTAL VALUE = ($510)
Today's Price = $57
they said
What others have said in the past about working with me and about my communities ...
You have this way of just making me feel not judged ... making me feel safe.
"I don't talk about my sex life with anyone except for you and my husband. But you have this way of just making me feel not judged ... making me feel safe and like it's okay. And when I do the hamster wheel thing and go back to my old story, you remind me and put me back on track. The time we spent together was truly incredibly healing for me and soooo needed. Up until then, I had so many unresolved feelings and limiting beliefs. I will FOREVER hold you in my heart as someone who has truly changed my life. That is saying so much because I searched high and low for someone that could walk me through those difficult feelings. So thank you!'“
KATY SUIK, COACH
I love how open you were to me expressing myself in my own unique way ...
“I loved being able to express myself openly. I love how open you were to me expressing myself in my own unique way. I also loved how comfortable I felt with you and that sense of trust that we had. You were not just simply providing information, but you were catering it to my needs and going back to help me succeed at times. I appreciate that so much.”
KAYLAN SCOTT, TEACHER
You offer a safe-haven and encouragement for people to find their true selves ...
"I find the questions thought provoking, the support wonderful, and the encouragement exceptional. I especially like that the encouragement does not come with a timeframe or any guilt. You offer a safe-haven and encouragement for people to find their true selves and not be afraid to show it. You help us bust thru the fear of showing our true selves to the world...and hopefully, eventually feeling comfortable and confident enough to show our true selves to our family, friends, and clients.”
CHRIS HILBERT, GRAPHIC DESIGNER
reminder
This is the introductory price. It will not last forever and will go up, so get in now!
The Relationship Roadmap
A SIMPLE TOOL FOR CREATING VISIONS THAT BOOST CONNECTION
Discover Your Desires Deep Dive . . . . . (Value $47)
Types of Touch & Sensation Activities . . . . . (Value $27)
Sensual Touch Activities . . . . . (Value $37)
Desires Debrief Template . . . . . . (Value $27)
The DREAM Framework & Checklist . . . . . (Value $34)
The Vision Questions & Audio . . . . . (Value $44)
Vision Statement Guide & Worksheet . . . . . . (Value $34)
Goal & Action Step Guides . . . . . . (Value $34)
The Connection Community . . . . . (Value $47)
Email Support . . . . . (Value $27)
BONUS: Monthly Meeting Outline . . . . . (Value $47)
BONUS: Strategies for Visualizing . . . . . (Value $7)
BONUS: How to Be More Present During Sex . . . . . (Value $17)
BONUS: 10 Fun Ways to Start a Conversation . . . . . (Value $17)
BONUS: Consent Guide . . . . . (Value $47)
BONUS: Pre & Post Assessments . . . . . (Value $17)
TOTAL VALUE = ($510)
Today's Price = $57
“At the core, sexuality is about uncovering who I really am underneath all of the cultural conditioning.”
~ Jaiya
you asked
Got questions? Here are my answers to some that are often asked ...
What if I want a refund?
I’ve put a lot into creating this toolkit for you and it’s extremely reasonably priced. However, within the first seven days after purchase, you can request a refund if you find that you aren’t satisfied.
How much time is involved? I'm really busy.
The truth is that there’s time involved in prioritizing your relationship, discovering what you really want and making a change (which is usually a process). However, I’ve also created the overall system with busy couples in mind, so it’s designed to be easy to incorporate into your life.
How do I know if this is right for me?
Have you resonated with what you've read? Do you find yourself thinking something like, "That's me. How are you in my head?!?" Are you ready to make a change (even if you're scared)? Are you willing to do the work? If you've answered yes to these questions, then it's right for you. I'm excited for what you’re about to create!
Can I work with you in other ways?
Absolutely! I also offer other tools courses and coaching. Check them out here. I look forward to working together!
I'm not in a relationship. Is this still right for me?
It’s designed for use by couples, especially couples in long term relationships (although relationship length doesn’t really matter). However, if you’re single but dating and you want to set a solid foundation, you’re certainly free to purchase it.
What support can I get if I'm stuck?
I believe strongly in support and the fact that it’s not about solving things with three quick tips. So, even though it’s a very low-priced tool, I do offer additional support in two ways. First, you’ll get access to a private community forum where you can ask questions, get answers from me and connect with others. Second, you’ll receive several emails to support you with accountability and implementation and you can reply to those emails with questions. You’ll get the emails even if you choose not to be part of the private community. And, of course, you can contact me by email at [email protected] any time.
Is everything available immediately?
Yes! When you purchase, you’ll click the button to get the tool and fill in your information. Then you’ll receive an email with instructions on how to access the tool and everything that’s included and you can get started right away.
How long can I access it?
Basically, you can keep it forever because you’ll be making a copy that you’ll have for as long as you want.
Can I share it with a friend?
You can share it with your partner but for anyone else, please share the link to the sales page and they can purchase their own tool.
Do I need a special program to access the materials?
Yes. I created the tool as a Trello board. You can access Trello for free, make a copy of the tool and start using it. I include a walkthrough video to show you how so that it's clear and simple even if you have no idea what a Trello board is right now.
The Relationship Roadmap
A SIMPLE TOOL FOR CREATING VISIONS THAT BOOST CONNECTION
Discover Your Desires Deep Dive . . . . . (Value $47)
Types of Touch & Sensation Activities . . . . . (Value $27)
Sensual Touch Activities . . . . . (Value $37)
Desires Debrief Template . . . . . . (Value $27)
The DREAM Framework & Checklist . . . . . (Value $34)
The Vision Questions & Audio . . . . . (Value $44)
Vision Statement Guide & Worksheet . . . . . . (Value $34)
Goal & Action Step Guides . . . . . . (Value $34)
The Connection Community . . . . . (Value $47)
Email Support . . . . . (Value $27)
BONUS: Monthly Meeting Outline . . . . . (Value $47)
BONUS: Strategies for Visualizing . . . . . (Value $7)
BONUS: How to Be More Present During Sex . . . . . (Value $17)
BONUS: 10 Fun Ways to Start a Conversation . . . . . (Value $17)
BONUS: Consent Guide . . . . . (Value $47)
BONUS: Pre & Post Assessments . . . . . (Value $17)
TOTAL VALUE = ($510)
Today's Price = $57
A FEW LAST THINGS ...
You’re worth having the relationship you desire.
By creating the connection you want, you start a ripple effect that impacts others in your life and reverberates out even further.
And life’s too short to stay stuck with a disconnected roommate relationship and feeling stuck in the same-old, same-old.
Let's do this.
Leanne
P.S. If you have any questions that weren't answered on this page, feel free to email me at leanne [at] connectionforcouples [dot] com.
The Relationship Roadmap
A SIMPLE TOOL FOR CREATING VISIONS THAT BOOST CONNECTION
Discover Your Desires Deep Dive . . . . . (Value $47)
Types of Touch & Sensation Activities . . . . . (Value $27)
Sensual Touch Activities . . . . . (Value $37)
Desires Debrief Template . . . . . . (Value $27)
The DREAM Framework & Checklist . . . . . (Value $34)
The Vision Questions & Audio . . . . . (Value $44)
Vision Statement Guide & Worksheet . . . . . . (Value $34)
Goal & Action Step Guides . . . . . . (Value $34)
The Connection Community . . . . . (Value $47)
Email Support . . . . . (Value $27)
BONUS: Monthly Meeting Outline . . . . . (Value $47)
BONUS: Strategies for Visualizing . . . . . (Value $7)
BONUS: How to Be More Present During Sex . . . . . (Value $17)
BONUS: 10 Fun Ways to Start a Conversation . . . . . (Value $17)
BONUS: Consent Guide . . . . . (Value $47)
BONUS: Pre & Post Assessments . . . . . (Value $17)
TOTAL VALUE = ($510)
Today's Price = $57
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